Columbus and Other Cannibals

When Thom Hartmann used the word “wétiko” in the movie I Am, it blew right past me the first couple of times I watched the movie. Then I watched the movie a third time so I could slow it down to understand the word and try to get the reference. He was describing it as a disease, and mentioned that the first person to talk about it that way was Jack Forbes.

In the book Columbus and Other Cannibals, Forbes calls the wétiko (cannibal) psychosis the greatest epidemic sickness known to mankind. He says that greed and gluttony, along with the cruel using of others’ lives without remorse is destructive of one’s own spiritual potential. He says that most Native languages have no word for “religion” and that a word for religion may not be needed until a people no longer have it.

Religion is, in reality, living. Our religion is not what we profess, or what we say, or what we proclaim; our religion is what we do, what we desire, what we seek, what we dream about, what we fantasize, what we think—all of these things—twenty-four hours a day. One’s religion, then, is one’s life, not merely the ideal life but the life as it is actually lived.

The last two chapters of the book talk about how to reverse the disease and how to find a path with heart. For the antidote to wétiko, Forbes turns to Siddhartha Gautama Buddha. The Buddha taught more than 2,500 years ago that we can break away from this suffering by following an individual path wherein we steer clear of dogmatism, sectarianism, greed, and organized religion in the normal sense. Forbes gives us a criteria to use to evaluate whether a path might be one we might want to follow.

So the real test of a spiritual path is not to see how many monuments result, or how many converts are obtained, or how many prayers are repeated over and over again by imitative voices, but rather the test is: How do people who follow that path behave? How do they behave towards other humans? How do they behave towards the earth? How do they behave towards other living creatures? Are they doing evil? Are they free men and women who will stand up to evil? Or are they passive foot-soldiers trained to surrender their minds and hearts to their  masters?

For the month of February this year, we tried to practice the balance between humility and self-worth. The wétiko disease results in arrogance. The need to dominate others and the earth originate in feelings of unworthiness. The first time I read the book, I only remembered the part about arrogance. Knowing that you have intrinsic worth that no one can take away is a very powerful feeling.

The book concludes with a beautiful  poem called The Universe is Our Holy Book, which includes these lines

The Old Ones say
outward is inward to the heart
and inward is outward to the center
because
for us
there are no absolute boundaries
no borders
no environments
no outside
no inside
no dualisms
no single body
no non-body

We don’t stop at our eyes
We don’t begin at our skin
We don’t end at our smell
We don’t start at our sounds
I can lose my legs
and go on living
I can lose my eyes
and go on living
I can lose my ears
and go on living
I can lose my hair
my nose
my hands
my arms
and go on living
but if I lose the water
I die
If I lose the air
I die
If I lose the Sun
I die
If I lose the plants and animals
I die
For all of these things
are more a part of me
more essential to my being
than is that
which I call “my body.”

 He also repeats the Black Elk teaching that the Great Holy dwells at the center of the universe, and that this Sacred Center is within each of us as well.
May we use  our Sacred Center to find a good path, a path with heart.

The Book of Awakening: Having the Life You Want by Being Present to the Life You Have

This little book is one of those daily inspirational message books. One of the things that I really like about it is that the author puts so much of himself in it. It makes the messages more personal than a random here-is-a-quote-that-I-like-now-what-else-can-I-say-about-it-x(365). The author has faced death from cancer and now knows how important it is to experience life.

Umstülpung

Umstülpung is a German word that describes an inversion process where one thing ceases to exist in order to allow a new living field to manifest. The following exercise is from chapter 21, Principles and Practice, of Theory U:

Review the current challenges in your life and work and how they resonate with your past journey. Do this as if you were looking down from above. If someone had designed your current challenges in order to teach you an important lesson that is connected to your forward journey, what would that lesson be? If someone had intentionally designed your past journey and current challenges to prepare you for your future work and life, what do you think might be the central theme of that future journey?

What does it take to learn from the future as it emerges?

Your Heart is the Key to Your Home Frequency

I’m enjoying the book Frequency, by Penney Peirce. There is a section where it has an exercise to find your own home frequency. Those steps are:

  1. Say to yourself: “In this moment and in this body I am 100 percent present.” Feel what it means and come into alignment with the statement.
  2. Turn down the sound of your thoughts as if you’re adjusting the volume on a radio. Soon you’ll hear your body’s teeming, which might sound like ringing, white noise, or a steady hum. Imagine something deeper behind or through the body hum. Enter the silence at the core of yourself, which is always there in spite of any physical noises.
  3. Imagine you’re in the center of your head looking out from behind your eyes. In that centermost point is a tiny gleaming diamond, emitting transparent light that radiates through your brain, clearing your mind to a neutral state of observation.
  4. Imagine you’re inside that diamond looking out, and it can move through your body like a tiny flying saucer. Let it fly down to your throat and hover. Look out at the world from this vantage point — your body’s head is up above you now. Then fly down to the center of the chest near your heart and hover. Look out at the world. Some of the body is above you, some below. You’re centered in the middle.
  5. Now fly down to the base of the spine and hover. Look out at the world from this vantage point. You’re much closer to the earth’s energy, the mind-in-the-brain is far above, and the body understands other bodies directly without language.
  6. Experiment with flying to a variety of places in your body and feeling the vibrations in the arch of a foot, a kneecap, the tip of your pointer finger, the base of your tongue, the center of a vertebra, your heart, your diaphragm. As you take these various vantage points, you may notice that your know the world in a particular way, that there is a certain kind of awareness inherent in each place. Some places are incredibly quiet and wise.
  7. Come back to the center of your head, open your eyes, and walk around, paying attention to your environment by noticing only color, shape, texture, temperature, smell, and noise. Don’t label anything; just remain in the direct experience, moving smoothly from one impression to the next, as an animal might.
  8. Later, try doing an activity that emphasizes one or two of your senses: dance around the living room to music, make a blender drink with fresh ingredients and drink it slowly. Notice your body’s pleasure, and note exactly how it feels.

This reminded me of my college roommate Kathy’s favorite saying, “A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can hum it back to you when you have forgotten the tune.”

So much of our time is spent doing things so we can do other things. It’s been a long time since I’ve tried just being. Penney Peirce’s says that the most calming way to find your home frequency is to enter and activate your heart awareness and apply loving attention to your body and the situation at hand. She says a quick way to do this is to allow life to be the way it is, choose to find the soul’s sanity in your immediate experience, and remember how you like to feel when you’re at your most generous, kind and unselfish. Be that way toward the moment and all it includes.

Learned Optimism

From Philosopher’s Notes: “There are three crucial dimensions to your explanatory style: permanence, pervasiveness, and personalization” ~ Martin Seligman from Learned Optimism

“Practice disputing your automatic interpretations all the time from now on.”

Permanence: Is it likely to continue? Is it permanent or temporary?

The permanence is pretty straightforward. Something happens. Do you explain the results as permanent, and likely to recur? Or, do you think it was temporary—just a fluke.

If it’s a bad thing, the optimist tends to think it’s a fluke. If it’s a good thing, they tend to think it’s permanent.

The opposite holds true for the pessimist: Good things are the flukes and bad things are more likely to recur.

Pervasiveness: Is it reflective of your whole life? Is it “universal” or is it “specific”?

The pervasiveness looks at whether we believe an event is specific or universal. So, do we think the results of this one event apply to everything in our lives, or just that episode?

With a good event, the optimist is more likely to extend it to her whole life. With a bad event, she will tend to isolate the incident as specific to that situation.

The opposite holds true for the pessimist. If something good happens, they think it was a fluke. If something bad happens, they think it is representative of their whole life.

Personalization: Internal or external?

The personalization looks at whether we believe that we are responsible for the event, or if something outside of our control was responsible. The fancy psychological term for it is “locus of control”: whether you believe the control was “internal” or “external.”

Something good happens. An optimist pats himself on the back (internal)—saying he did a good job. Same thing happens to a pessimist. He is more likely to attribute the success to luck, other people’s hard work, or something else outside of his control (external).

D’oh. Something bad happens. The optimist looks to things outside of himself (external) to explain the event—from bad luck to an off day. The pessimist, although they didn’t take responsibility for the good event, are eager to take responsibility for the bad event (internal).

“People who make permanent and universal explanations for their troubles tend to collapse under pressure, both for a long time and across situations.” ~ Martin Seligman fromLearned Optimism

A note on realism: Seligman addresses the fact that optimism is not always a good thing. In fact, many situations call for a strong level of pessimism and realism. For example, imagine a pilot experiencing trouble with his aircraft. The situation demands brutal realism. Same holds true for a business experiencing troubles. Although you want your leader to have hope and optimism for a bright future, you also need a healthy dose of realism to ensure success.

More Seligman wisdom:

“On a mechanical level, cognitive therapy works because it changes explanatory style from pessimistic to optimistic, and the change is permanent. It gives you a set of cognitive skills for talking to yourself when you fail.”

Finding My Inner Squirrel

In the Philosopher’s Note about Overachievement, Brian Johnson talks about how squirrels don’t engage their cerebral cortex before scurrying across a high wire. They just do it. Our cerebral cortexes save us from being squashed squirrels by the side of the road, but you don’t see too many of those compared to the lithe acrobatic jumping of our furry tailed little friends. They’re especially fun to watch in winter, when you can really see them high up in the bare trees.

Squirrels don’t overanalyze, second-guess themselves, or become paralyzed by fear. They just go. All the time. You never see a squirrel being lazy. They’re always in the present moment – maybe it’s squirreltuition.

A Thousand Names for Joy

Byron Katie’s new book A Thousand Names for Joy came highly recommended, so we decided to check it out. Her husband, Steven Mitchell, has published books on the Tao Te Ching. He gave her one of the 81 “chapters” and then they came up with her take on it. We have 3 different translations of the Tao Te Ching, so we had fun picking out chapters and comparing all the different versions.

She has a very interesting story, but we have to admit that we liked her book Loving What Is better. Some of the entries seemed to have very little with the chapter topic. The few where she disagreed with the translation/philosophy of the Tao were interesting, but didn’t really seem like enough to hold a book together.

NaNoWriMo

Starting today, we’re joining 100,000+ people worldwide who have made a commitment to write a 50 thousand+ word novel in the month of November. It’s called National Novel Writing Month.

National Novel Writing Month Participants

Neither of us has ever written a novel before. We had something entirely different planned for November, but found out about this yesterday. It’s a good thing we didn’t have too much time to plan, or we might’ve talked ourselves out of it already. I had trouble locating a copy of the book “No Plot? No Problem!” because all the copies at the libraries have already been checked out. All the local bookstores were sold out, too. I located one copy at a Borders in Minnetonka, so we hopped on our motorcycles and headed down there. Trouble was, we couldn’t get across the Mississippi river because the Halloween parade was still winding down in Anoka (which is the Halloween capital of the world). The temperature was only 41 degrees, and after two hours crawling along, following detours and watching floats leaving the parade, we drove back home and got in the car.

One of the things that Chris Baty talks about in the book is how to find your Forgo-able time so that you can have time on a regular basis to work on your novel. It’s also about letting go of perfection and just getting started. He mentions how hard it is to start something new as you get older – and he’s not much older than 30. Everyone who finishes their novel is declared a winner.

The Silent Pulse

From The Silent Pulse: A Search for the Perfect Rhythm that Exists in Each of Us

At the heart of each of us, whatever our imperfections, there exists a silent pulse of perfect rhythm, a complex of wave forms and resonances, which is absolutely individual and unique, and yet which connects us to everything in the universe. The act of getting in touch with this pulse can transform our personal experience and in some way alter the world around us.

I’m just getting started with this book, but I’m already finding lots of wonderful quotes and concepts. The library only had the 1978 version, so I may need to try to get my hands on the 2006 version to compare. George Leonard makes some scientific claims that may have been solved since the book was originally published, such as we don’t know how sensitivity to temperature and pain works.