No Excuses!

This May, we are going to keep this phrase in mind every day!  The thought of using this as our Something Different for the month resulted from receiving an email from Brian Tracy, who published a book about self discipline.

at least for this month!

The book, No Excuses! The Power of Self-Discipline is about how to stop making excuses and start taking action to get everything you want in life. 

Brian teaches that self-discipline is the key to success and gives us practical advice to master it and achieve self-actualization, happy relationships, and financial security. 

Well, that sounded good to us.

You might be interested in skimming and dipping into what this book is about. Conveniently, the first chapter is available in a free PDF which I’m sure the author won’t mind us sharing. So, here you go. 

Just remember:  No Excuses!

Ikigai—finding your life purpose every day

Suggestions for finding your own reasons for leaping forth with a mighty zeal every morning, from https://www.elle.com/uk/life-and-culture/culture/a19592569/ikigai-japanese-purpose-lifestyle-trend/

Ken Mogi suggests starting with the 5 pillars

  • start small
  • accept yourself
  • connect with the world around you (through other people and the environment)
  • seek out small joys
  • be in the here and now

Then ask yourself these 4 questions

  1. What do I love?
  2. What am I good at?
  3. What can I be paid for now — or something that could transform into my future hustle?
  4. What does the world need?

Héctor García and Francesc Miralles suggest in their book Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life

  1. Stay active and don’t retire
  2. Leave urgency behind and adopt a slower pace of life
  3. Only eat until you are 80 per cent full
  4. Surround yourself with good friends
  5. Get in shape through daily, gentle exercise
  6. Smile and acknowledge people around you
  7. Reconnect with nature
  8. Give thanks to anything that brightens our day and makes us feel alive
  9. Live in the moment
  10. Follow your ikigai

Blueprint for a beautiful week

Start doing one of these rituals today and be the hero of your own life

  • Ritual of early rising. Sweat more and your brain creates more BDNF. Start journaling to detect your values, reconnect with your goals and know yourself.
  • Ritual of strategic time blocking. The things you schedule are the things that get done. Vague goals = vague results.
  • Ritual of over delivery—show initiative!
  • 60 minute student. Ritual of daily learning.
  • Ritual of private reflection. Silence. Solitude. Stillness.

When Go Fast means Slow Down

hourglass figureThey say that speed kills. So take your time! There’s really no need to rush, and you’ll be glad you slowed down. I’m actually talking about the frequency of Eating…

We have been taught since we were kids that we regularly need 3 square meals a day–Every day. Do not miss your breakfast, lunch or dinner. Eat, Eat, then Eat some more (Snacks are sinfully and deliciously optional.) That’s quite a frequent and quick pace. Our hunter-gatherer ancestors probably did not have meals with such velocity!

We (and by we, I mean I) eat so often and regularly that if we miss lunch, then by 2:00PM we think we might be starving. The fact is, we’re not.

Consider these items from the Lighter Fare side of the Menu of Fasting: [_] Skip a meal. [_] Skip a day’s meals.  [_] Dine on Water only (with fresh lemon, even better!). Those are some starter plan ideas.

Experiment with what works for you. Start by skipping one meal, one day a week. Proceed at your own pace. If you feel uncomfortable, consult a professional.

[Obligatory disclaimer: although I have great experience eating (about 70,000 meals to date!), I am not not an expert or a professional. So take what I say here with a grain of salt…but not too much salt!] 

Just think, if you skip breakfast and don’t consume any calories until lunchtime, your body has enjoyed a 15 to 20 hour fast!

When you slow down your meal velocity, you will begin to enjoy some tremendous benefits, like…

  • giving your digestive system a break
  • feeling lighter and healthier
  • BEING lighter–losing some weight*
  • Ketosis — consuming excess food stores within your body (i.e.- Fat)
  • healing, cleansing and detoxing
  • gaining some mental clarity and alertness / reducing brain fog
  • learning when you’re really hungry, rather than only mentally hungry
  • enjoying food flavors more
  • saving a trip to the grocery store / restaurant / drive-through (like they say, “spare dinner, save dinero”!)
  • better sleep, deeper meditation
  • being able to better understand how foods really affect you as you gradually reintroduce them to your system afterward,
  • and more…

*While not eating is surely an effective way to lose weight, it’s not recommended as a diet plan. You are responsible for what you eat and don’t eat, so find out more about your possible choices before jumping in, and choose wisely.

The Hidden Power Of Fasting

Adopt 3 Words

Instead of making resolutions, for the past five years I’ve chosen three words to be my theme words for the year, as described by Chris Brogan. Three words, carefully chosen, can be your personal theme too! While it’s great to do this as an annual personal theme, try doing it for one month and see how it goes.

ADOPT 3 WORDS and make them YOUR words!

The idea is to pick three words that are meaningful for YOU, and put them where you’ll notice them every day. Examples:

  • On your calendar (schedule an event that lasts from today through the end of the month, or for all of next month)
  • On your phone’s home screen (if you have room!… make a meme or .JPG file, then select it as your background)
  • On your social media profile
  • On your bathroom mirror or refrigerator door

You will see the your 3 words every day, which will make you think of your three important themes. It’s a great practice… try it for a month and see what happens!

In case you are curious, here are three words that I picked recently:

  • Adventure – this describes my personal journey. It’s about leading from the future as it emerges, rather than being stuck in my comfortable pre-planned life.
  • Create – being creative is about finishing things, bringing my creative vision into existence.
  • Amplituhedron – has the idea of amplification while simplifying previous approaches to complex problems. The discovery of these mathematical formulas required a new way of thinking.amplituhedron

Powered by Heart

Zhi Cell logo

For several weeks now, we’ve been taking a new medicinal mushroom product from Alphay, called Zhi Cell. We met the founder, Chairman Hui Chen, at the Regional Summit held in Bloomington MN. The company is very high integrity, which comes from the attitudes of the people at the top on down. The company name means “safe family.” They have a constitution, which is based on the following core principles

  • Honesty and Integrity
  • Accountability
  • Humanity
  • Excellence

and five powers

  1. The power of the spoken word. Your voice is one of the most profoundly effective tools you have. It is what you use to
    tell your story and inspire others to create their own. It is important to use this tool wisely,
    and always think before you speak.
  2. The power of unity. Unity represents teamwork, and teamwork is one of the most powerful forces on earth.
    When we work together, we can accomplish anything. Alphay thrives on collaboration
    and the efforts of the whole. An opportunity to work with and uplift others is always an
    opportunity to reap great rewards within your own business.
  3. The power of forgiveness.
    Unity and forgiveness go hand-in-hand; the strength of the whole depends on the ability
    of individuals to treat others with compassion. When other people make mistakes, just
    as you will, be quick to forgive, slow to judge and ready to teach and help at the moment’s notice – these are all attributes of the strong.
  4. The power of gratitude.
    In personal, social and professional life, those who show gratitude for what they have
    and the opportunity they have been given are those who find the greatest happiness.
    Appreciate what you have and take the time to express it to others.
  5. The power of example. Alphay is founded on the premise that the greatest health and happiness in life are
    achieved by finding balance in all things. You will achieve balance in your own life only if
    You strive to become an example to those around you of a true team player who uses
    their voice and their talents to do good to others and show gratitude for all they have. Be
    an example of the positive traits you would like to see in others.

You can get delicious, healthy tea and coffee from Alphay Sevana, as well as other medicinal mushroom dietary supplements and lifestyle products.

Love Yourself

I Love Myself

Monday I watched a webinar by Abel James on en*theos where he talked about productivity. He said that he starts every day by asking himself these three questions:

  • What am I grateful for?
  • What three things would make today amazing?
  • What two things can I say about myself that empower me?

The next day I read the short book “Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It” by Kamal Ravikant. The title says it all, but I liked his Awesomeness Fest speech on Love and Entrepreneurship better.

Free Yourself

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A human being is a part of the whole called by us universe, a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his
thoughts and feeling as something separated from the rest, a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty.

 

Nobody is able to achieve this completely,
but the striving for such achievement
is itself a part of the liberation
and a foundation for inner security.

Columbus and Other Cannibals

When Thom Hartmann used the word “wétiko” in the movie I Am, it blew right past me the first couple of times I watched the movie. Then I watched the movie a third time so I could slow it down to understand the word and try to get the reference. He was describing it as a disease, and mentioned that the first person to talk about it that way was Jack Forbes.

In the book Columbus and Other Cannibals, Forbes calls the wétiko (cannibal) psychosis the greatest epidemic sickness known to mankind. He says that greed and gluttony, along with the cruel using of others’ lives without remorse is destructive of one’s own spiritual potential. He says that most Native languages have no word for “religion” and that a word for religion may not be needed until a people no longer have it.

Religion is, in reality, living. Our religion is not what we profess, or what we say, or what we proclaim; our religion is what we do, what we desire, what we seek, what we dream about, what we fantasize, what we think—all of these things—twenty-four hours a day. One’s religion, then, is one’s life, not merely the ideal life but the life as it is actually lived.

The last two chapters of the book talk about how to reverse the disease and how to find a path with heart. For the antidote to wétiko, Forbes turns to Siddhartha Gautama Buddha. The Buddha taught more than 2,500 years ago that we can break away from this suffering by following an individual path wherein we steer clear of dogmatism, sectarianism, greed, and organized religion in the normal sense. Forbes gives us a criteria to use to evaluate whether a path might be one we might want to follow.

So the real test of a spiritual path is not to see how many monuments result, or how many converts are obtained, or how many prayers are repeated over and over again by imitative voices, but rather the test is: How do people who follow that path behave? How do they behave towards other humans? How do they behave towards the earth? How do they behave towards other living creatures? Are they doing evil? Are they free men and women who will stand up to evil? Or are they passive foot-soldiers trained to surrender their minds and hearts to their  masters?

For the month of February this year, we tried to practice the balance between humility and self-worth. The wétiko disease results in arrogance. The need to dominate others and the earth originate in feelings of unworthiness. The first time I read the book, I only remembered the part about arrogance. Knowing that you have intrinsic worth that no one can take away is a very powerful feeling.

The book concludes with a beautiful  poem called The Universe is Our Holy Book, which includes these lines

The Old Ones say
outward is inward to the heart
and inward is outward to the center
because
for us
there are no absolute boundaries
no borders
no environments
no outside
no inside
no dualisms
no single body
no non-body

We don’t stop at our eyes
We don’t begin at our skin
We don’t end at our smell
We don’t start at our sounds
I can lose my legs
and go on living
I can lose my eyes
and go on living
I can lose my ears
and go on living
I can lose my hair
my nose
my hands
my arms
and go on living
but if I lose the water
I die
If I lose the air
I die
If I lose the Sun
I die
If I lose the plants and animals
I die
For all of these things
are more a part of me
more essential to my being
than is that
which I call “my body.”

 He also repeats the Black Elk teaching that the Great Holy dwells at the center of the universe, and that this Sacred Center is within each of us as well.
May we use  our Sacred Center to find a good path, a path with heart.
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Moving from Stillness

The whirling dervishes are sufis who spin and spin while they circle around their teacher, who they believe represents the sun. It takes a good sense of your own center of gravity to be able to do that without getting dizzy or spinning out of control.

The whirling dervish spiritual ceremony is performed out of a sense of love for all people. According to Sufi Whirling Dervishes of Rumi

An important characteristic of this seven-centuries-old ritual is that it unites the three fundamental components of human nature: the mind (as knowledge and thought), the heart (through the expression of feelings, poetry and music) and the body (by activating life, by the turning). These three elements are thoroughly joined both in theory and in practice as perhaps in no other ritual or system of thought.

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Everything revolves, at the level of electrons, within blood and other circulatory systems, and within the cosmos. To live is to move.

Moving from stillness can give you more balance, keeping your focus on your objective. It makes it easier to get to a resounding YES if you’re not distracted by conflicting choices.

But first you need to spend enough time in the stillness.

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